{"id":5093,"date":"2010-02-10T21:00:43","date_gmt":"2010-02-10T19:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/?p=5093"},"modified":"2010-02-10T21:00:43","modified_gmt":"2010-02-10T19:00:43","slug":"05-10-21","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/05-10-21\/","title":{"rendered":"21 \u2013 Minors"},"content":{"rendered":"
As is true regarding all other mitzvot<\/em>, we are commanded to educate our children to keep the mitzvot<\/em> relating to Tish\u2019a B\u2019Av<\/em> and mourning over the churban<\/em>. Since children are weak, however, it is impossible to teach them to fast [when they are young]. Therefore, we train them to fast a few hours, depending on their strength, only starting from age nine. They should not fast the entire day (Rama of Panow 111; see K.H.C.<\/em> 554:23). When feeding children [on Tish\u2019a B\u2019Av<\/em>], one should give them only simple foods, in order to teach them to join with the community in mourning (M.B.<\/em> 550:5). Many people are careful to teach their children who have reached the age of chinuch<\/em> (education) \u2013 from around six years old \u2013 not to eat or drink on the night of the fast.<\/p>\n At the age of chinuch<\/em>\u2026 when a child begins to understand the story of the destruction and the [concept of] mourning over it, we teach him or her not to wear leather sandals or shoes and not to apply ointments or bathe for the sake of pleasure. Some act strictly in this regard even from the age of two or three. Even though children of this age do not understand the concept of mourning, [these acts nonetheless symbolize] a sharing in [the Jewish people\u2019s] anguish and demonstrate our grief over the churban<\/em>, seeing that even small children participate, in some way, in our mourning.[29]<\/a><\/p>\n [As mentioned] above (10.10), one is forbidden to study Torah [on Tish\u2019a B\u2019Av<\/em>], because it brings a person joy, and one may only learn sad topics related to the destruction of the Temple and the laws of mourning. The same applies to teaching children: adults may only teach them topics related to the churban<\/em> and mourning. Some say that adults may not teach children even those topics and laws related to the churban<\/em>, because adults feel joy when they teach children. [According to these authorities], the only thing one may do is tell them the story of the destruction (M.B.<\/em> 554:2; see K.H.C.<\/em> 8). Since these two opinions are equally [represented], every person may choose which one he wants to follow. Everyone agrees, however, that a minor may learn, on his own, whatever an adult may learn.[30]<\/a><\/p>\n
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