{"id":6049,"date":"2010-01-04T06:00:58","date_gmt":"2010-01-04T04:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/?p=6049"},"modified":"2018-05-24T11:15:37","modified_gmt":"2018-05-24T08:15:37","slug":"02-04-06","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/02-04-06\/","title":{"rendered":"06 – The Duration of the Kaddish Recital and the Yahrtzeit Day"},"content":{"rendered":"
According to Ashkenazic custom, a mourner leads the services and says Kaddish<\/i> for eleven months after a parent\u2019s death. This is because the judgment of evil people in Gehinnom<\/i> is twelve months, and if a mourner recites Kaddish<\/i> for the deceased for a full twelve months, it will seem as though he was considered evil (Rama<\/i>, Yoreh De\u2019ah<\/i> 376:4). The Sephardic custom is to stop for the first week of the twelfth month and then continue to lead the services and say Kaddish<\/i> until the anniversary of the death (yahrtzeit<\/i>) (Birkei Yosef <\/i>there). Kaddish<\/i> recited after learning, which is not within the framework of prayer, may be said by the mourners throughout the whole twelfth month (Rav Pe\u2019alim<\/i>, part 4, Yoreh De\u2019ah<\/i> 32). However, for one who was known to be an evil person, such as someone who committed suicide or an apostate, Kaddish<\/i> is recited for the full twelve months (Pitchei Teshuvah<\/i>, Yoreh De\u2019ah<\/i> 376:9).<\/p>\n
It is also customary to say Kaddish<\/i> and lead the prayer service on the day of the yahrtzeit<\/i>. According to Sephardic custom, one begins to say Kaddish<\/i> from the Friday prior to the anniversary until the yahrtzeit<\/i> day. Additionally, one who is well-liked by the congregation should also be chazan<\/i> (Kaf HaChaim<\/i> 55:23). Even among Ashkenazim<\/i> there are those who have the custom of leading the services on the Shabbat before the yahrtzeit<\/i> and for the Ma\u2019ariv<\/i> prayer at the close of that Shabbat <\/i>(Pnei Baruch<\/i> 39:2). However, they cannot preempt a mourner in his year of mourning or someone who has a yahrtzeit<\/i> on that specific day (Piskei Teshuvot<\/i> 132:26). The yahrtzeit<\/i> is set according to the day the person died and not the day he or she was buried. Even at the end of the first year, the yahrtzeit<\/i> is established based on the day of the person\u2019s death.[6]<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n