{"id":9178,"date":"2000-12-01T00:09:31","date_gmt":"2000-11-30T22:09:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/?p=9178"},"modified":"2019-05-14T12:37:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-14T09:37:55","slug":"12-01-09","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/en\/12-01-09\/","title":{"rendered":"09. Meat and Wine at Yom Tov Meals"},"content":{"rendered":"
In Temple times, the joy of the pilgrimage festivals was expressed primarily through bringing \u1e25agiga<\/em> offerings in Jerusalem, as we read, \u201cYou shall rejoice before the Lord your God\u2026at the place where the Lord your God will choose to establish His name\u201d (Devarim 16:11), and \u201cYou shall sacrifice there peace offerings (shelamim<\/em>) and eat them, rejoicing before the Lord your God\u201d (Devarim 27:7). This is explained below in section 15.<\/p>\n Since the destruction of the Temple, men fulfill the mitzva of additional sim\u1e25a<\/em> by drinking wine and having a festive meal (Pesa\u1e25im<\/em> 109a; SA 529:1). It can also be fulfilled by drinking other alcoholic beverages, as they are mood enhancers. However, it is preferable to use wine, which is considered the most dignified of all drinks. Drinking grape juice does not fulfill the mitzva; as it is not alcoholic, it is not a mood enhancer. How much wine is necessary to enhance one\u2019s mood? Enough to cause a bit of difficulty with concentration, such that a rabbi would be considered impaired and thus prohibited from giving a halakhic ruling (MA 99:1). Some Torah giants would drink so much wine during the Yom Tov meals that they refrained from giving rulings until the following day (Beitza<\/em> 4a; Kareitot<\/em> 13b; Shakh<\/em>, YD 242:19). The Sages estimate that minimally, to achieve the requisite level of sim\u1e25a<\/em> one must drink slightly more than a revi\u2019it<\/em> of wine (75 ml), though most people would need to drink considerably more than that to achieve such a state.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, one should not overdo the drinking, as we are not meant to get drunk. Drunkenness is not to be equated with sim\u1e25a<\/em>, but rather with frivolity, silliness, and escapism. We are commanded to celebrate in a way that is connected with life and which infuses it with meaning and sanctity.<\/p>\n Even though the primary way for a man to achieve sim\u1e25a<\/em> is through drinking wine, there is also a mitzva to eat red meat at the festive meals, as this is also enjoyable. Thus, drinking wine is an obligation (\u1e25ova<\/em>), while eating red meat is a mitzva (SA 529:1; SAH ad loc.<\/em> 7; MB ad loc.<\/em> 11). If one prefers poultry or is unable to obtain red meat, he should eat poultry, as it too is festive and brings joy (\u1e24avot Ya\u2019ir<\/em>, end of \u00a7178).<\/p>\n The primary expression of the additional sim\u1e25a<\/em> is at the daytime meal. (The primary expression of all festival mitzvot<\/em> is during the day.) True, there is a mitzva to have an abundance of good, enjoyable food at night \u2013 even more than one would at a Shabbat meal. In the evening, though, there is no mitzva to have wine as there is during the day.<\/p>\n Women, too, are obligated to have enjoyable feasts on Yom Tov, but they are not obligated to drink wine. If a woman enjoys wine, she does have a mitzva to drink some. If a man does not enjoy drinking wine or eating meat, he does not have to force himself to do so. Rather, for the Yom Tov meals, he should make sure to have the foods which make him happiest (Sha\u2019agat Aryeh<\/em> \u00a765).[5]<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n