{"id":4703,"date":"2000-12-10T00:04:08","date_gmt":"2000-12-09T22:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/?p=4703"},"modified":"2021-05-10T10:08:36","modified_gmt":"2021-05-10T07:08:36","slug":"12-10-04","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/12-10-04\/","title":{"rendered":"04 &#8211; L\u2019interdit de se marier, en raison de la joie propre \u00e0 la f\u00eate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Il est interdit de se marier \u00e0 \u2018Hol hamo\u2019ed, car il ne faut pas m\u00e9langer une joie avec une autre. Il nous a \u00e9t\u00e9 ordonn\u00e9 de nous r\u00e9jouir pendant la f\u00eate, comme il est dit\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Tu te r\u00e9jouiras en ta f\u00eate\u00a0\u00bb (Dt 16, 14)\u00a0; il ne faut donc pas m\u00e9langer, avec la joie de la f\u00eate, une autre joie importante. Or celui qui se marie, tout \u00e0 la joie qu\u2019il \u00e9prouve \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9gard de son \u00e9pouse, d\u00e9laisse la joie de la f\u00eate pour se livrer \u00e0 celle que son \u00e9pouse lui donne. De plus, l\u2019effort que requiert l\u2019organisation d\u2019un mariage, avec tout ce qui lui est n\u00e9cessaire \u2013 maison, meubles \u2013, risque de porter atteinte \u00e0 la joie de la f\u00eate. Les sages ont \u00e9galement craint que, s\u2019il \u00e9tait permis de se marier pendant la f\u00eate, on en v\u00eent \u00e0 ajourner la mitsva de procr\u00e9er\u00a0; certains couples, en effet, qui pourraient se marier pendant les mois pr\u00e9c\u00e9dents, repousseraient leurs noces \u00e0 la f\u00eate, afin que davantage de monde se joigne \u00e0 leur joie, et afin d\u2019\u00e9conomiser de l\u2019argent, car ils pourraient alors faire du repas de f\u00eate et du repas de mariage un seul et m\u00eame repas (<em>Mo\u2019ed Qatan<\/em> 8b).<\/p>\n<p>Ce n\u2019est pas seulement le premier mariage qu\u2019il est interdit de c\u00e9l\u00e9brer pendant la f\u00eate\u00a0: la r\u00e8gle vaut aussi pour de secondes noces, car la joie est grande aussi en une telle circonstance. Toutefois, des \u00e9poux qui avaient divorc\u00e9, et qui ont d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de se remarier, sont autoris\u00e9s \u00e0 le faire pendant la f\u00eate, car leurs noces ne sont pas caract\u00e9ris\u00e9es par une joie si grande (<em>Choul\u2019han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 546, 1-2).<\/p>\n<p>Il est permis de se marier la veille d\u2019une f\u00eate, et de fixer les repas de <em>ch\u00e9va\u2019 berakhot<\/em> (sept b\u00e9n\u00e9dictions) pendant la f\u00eate, car, de cette mani\u00e8re, la joie de la f\u00eate est principale, et la joie des <em>ch\u00e9va\u2019 berakhot<\/em> ne porte pas atteinte \u00e0 celle de la f\u00eate, mais s\u2019ajoute \u00e0 elle (<em>Choul\u2019han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 546, 3).<\/p>\n<p>Il est permis d\u2019organiser, pendant la f\u00eate, un repas de <em>berit mila<\/em> (circoncision) ou de <em>pidyon haben<\/em> (rachat du premier n\u00e9), car la joie associ\u00e9e \u00e0 de tels repas n\u2019est pas grande au point qu\u2019il soit \u00e0 craindre de faire de l\u2019ombre \u00e0 la joie de la f\u00eate (<em>Choul\u2019han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 546, 4).<\/p>\n<p>Il est permis d\u2019organiser une f\u00eate de fian\u00e7ailles (<em>messibat chidoukhin<\/em>, improprement appel\u00e9e de nos jours <em>\u00e9roussin<\/em>). Toutefois, certains auteurs n\u2019autorisent cela qu\u2019\u00e0 la condition de se contenter d\u2019offrir un buffet, et non un repas complet (<em>Tour\u00e9 Zahav<\/em> 546, 2)\u00a0; mais ceux qui voudraient \u00eatre indulgents en cela, et servir un v\u00e9ritable repas, ont sur qui s\u2019appuyer (<em>Michna Beroura<\/em> 546, 2).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Il est interdit de se marier \u00e0 \u2018Hol hamo\u2019ed, car il ne faut pas m\u00e9langer une joie avec une autre. 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