{"id":5888,"date":"2026-01-13T07:00:27","date_gmt":"2026-01-13T05:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/?p=5888"},"modified":"2026-05-06T13:21:00","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T10:21:00","slug":"10-13-07","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/10-13-07\/","title":{"rendered":"07. Bonnes mani\u00e8res \u00e0 table"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lorsque plusieurs personnes sont r\u00e9unies \u00e0 table, chacun des convives se servira une part \u00e9gale du plat central. M\u00eame si l\u2019un des convives s\u2019est peu servi, on ne prendra pas davantage qu\u2019une part \u00e9gale \u00e0 toutes les autres, car il se peut que le premier veuille se resservir ensuite. Ce n\u2019est que si l\u2019on constate que ledit convive ne souhaite pas manger davantage que l\u2019on demandera si l\u2019on peut prendre le reste (cf. <em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 170, 2).<\/p>\n<p>Quand, parmi les convives, se trouve un grand homme, ou le p\u00e8re de famille, on attendra qu\u2019il se serve le premier du plat commun\u00a0; les autres prendront leur part seulement ensuite (<em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 170, 12).<\/p>\n<p>Il ne convient pas de regarder avec insistance le visage de celui qui mange\u00a0; cela l\u2019embarrasserait. En particulier, l\u2019h\u00f4te doit s\u2019abstenir de regarder le visage de son invit\u00e9 lorsque celui-ci est en train de manger ou de se servir (<em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 170, 4). De m\u00eame, il ne faut pas photographier, sans son accord, celui qui est en train de manger.<\/p>\n<p>On ne s\u2019emplira pas la bouche de beaucoup de nourriture \u00e0 la fois, comme le font les gloutons. On ne boira pas non plus d\u2019un seul coup un verre entier de vin, ou d\u2019une autre boisson alcoolis\u00e9e (<em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 170, 7-8\u00a0; <em>Michna Beroura<\/em> 22). On ne mangera pas rapidement, et l\u2019on ne m\u00e2chera pas bruyamment la nourriture\u00a0; on mangera avec mesure, bouche ferm\u00e9e. On aura soin de ne pas salir ses habits, ses mains ou sa barbe (<em>Ben Ich \u2018Ha\u00ef, Behar <\/em>8-9).<\/p>\n<p>Les hommes raffin\u00e9s, jadis \u00e0 J\u00e9rusalem, ne prenaient point part \u00e0 un repas sans savoir pr\u00e9alablement qui seraient les autres convives (<em>Sanh\u00e9drin<\/em> 23a\u00a0; <em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 170, 20). Cela, parce que c\u2019est un sujet d\u2019opprobre pour un \u00e9rudit que d\u2019\u00eatre \u00e0 table aux c\u00f4t\u00e9s de personnes frivoles d\u2019esprit, en particulier lors d\u2019un repas o\u00f9 l\u2019on boit du vin et des boissons alcoolis\u00e9es, qui ouvrent les c\u0153urs et rapprochent les convives les uns des autres. Certains sont cependant indulgents quand il s\u2019agit d\u2019une <em>s\u00e9\u2018oudat mitsva<\/em> (repas donn\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019occasion d\u2019une mitsva), car alors le m\u00e9rite de la mitsva a pour effet que cette proximit\u00e9 n\u2019engendre pas de telle frivolit\u00e9. Mais si l\u2019on sait que telles personnes ne se comporteront probablement pas de mani\u00e8re honorable, on ne prendra point de vin ni de boisson alcoolis\u00e9e en leur compagnie, m\u00eame dans le cadre d\u2019une <em>s\u00e9\u2018oudat mitsva<\/em>. Quand il s\u2019agit d\u2019un \u00e9rudit tr\u00e8s honor\u00e9, et que l\u2019on sait que les gens se comporteront en sa pr\u00e9sence de mani\u00e8re honorable, il sera permis \u00e0 cet \u00e9rudit de s\u2019attabler et de boire en leur compagnie pour participer \u00e0 la joie qu\u2019occasionne une mitsva, quoique en d\u2019autres circonstances ces gens se comportent avec l\u00e9g\u00e8ret\u00e9\u00a0: gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 cela, ils se rapprocheront de la Torah et des mitsvot (cf. <em>B\u00e9our Halakha<\/em>, <em>ad loc.<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>Si l\u2019on a des enfants en bas \u00e2ge qui participent au repas, il faut les surveiller afin qu\u2019ils ne mettent pas les mains dans le plat commun, rendant ainsi r\u00e9pugnante la nourriture aux yeux des autres convives. On veillera aussi \u00e0 ce qu\u2019ils ne se salissent pas \u00e0 l\u2019exc\u00e8s, et \u00e0 ce que leur nez soit propre. S\u2019il se trouve l\u00e0 un invit\u00e9, on ne placera pas \u00e0 ses c\u00f4t\u00e9s de petits enfants, qui ont l\u2019habitude de se salir, \u00e0 moins que cet invit\u00e9 le veuille (<em>S\u00e9fer \u2018Hassidim<\/em> 829\u00a0; <em>Kaf Ha\u2018ha\u00efm<\/em> 170, 78).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorsque plusieurs personnes sont r\u00e9unies \u00e0 table, chacun des convives se servira une part \u00e9gale du plat central. M\u00eame si l\u2019un des convives s\u2019est peu servi, on ne prendra pas davantage qu\u2019une part \u00e9gale \u00e0 toutes les autres, car il se peut que le premier veuille se resservir ensuite. 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