{"id":6081,"date":"2026-01-17T12:00:27","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T10:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/?p=6081"},"modified":"2026-05-11T11:12:25","modified_gmt":"2026-05-11T08:12:25","slug":"10-17-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ph.yhb.org.il\/fr\/10-17-12\/","title":{"rendered":"12. Ami que l\u2019on n\u2019a pas vu pendant douze mois"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Si l\u2019on n\u2019a pas vu tel ami cher pendant douze mois, et que l\u2019on n\u2019ait pas non plus entendu de ses nouvelles, au point qu\u2019une certaine crainte pourrait exister qu\u2019il ne f\u00fbt plus vivant, on dira, en le revoyant\u00a0: <em>Baroukh Ata Ado-na\u00ef, Elo-h\u00e9nou, M\u00e9lekh ha\u2018olam, me\u2018hay\u00e9 ham\u00e9tim<\/em> (\u00ab\u00a0B\u00e9ni sois-Tu, \u00c9ternel, notre Dieu, Roi de l\u2019univers, qui ressuscites les morts\u00a0\u00bb). (<em>Berakhot<\/em> 58b\u00a0; <em>Choul\u2018han \u2018Aroukh<\/em> 225, 1)<\/p>\n<p>De prime abord, il y a lieu de s\u2019\u00e9tonner\u00a0: au moment de la rencontre, l\u2019ami ne ressuscite pas\u00a0; pourquoi faudrait-il dire, en le revoyant, \u00ab\u00a0B\u00e9ni sois-Tu\u2026 qui ressuscites les morts\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0? Et cependant la s\u00e9paration d\u2019une ann\u00e9e cr\u00e9e un changement r\u00e9el dans l\u2019esprit. Durant ces nombreux jours, la pens\u00e9e s\u2019est concentr\u00e9e sur d\u2019autres choses, et les sentiments d\u2019amiti\u00e9 ont \u00e9t\u00e9 oubli\u00e9s, disparus au tr\u00e9fonds de l\u2019\u00e2me. (Le deuil, lui aussi, s\u2019ach\u00e8ve au terme d\u2019une ann\u00e9e, parce que la dur\u00e9e d\u2019un an \u00e9mousse et fait oublier l\u2019intensit\u00e9 des sentiments premiers.) De sorte qu\u2019il semble presque impossible, d\u2019apr\u00e8s la s\u00e8che logique \u2013 laquelle consid\u00e8re seulement ce qui s\u2019offre \u00e0 la vision \u2013, de faire revivre les sentiments d\u2019amiti\u00e9 apr\u00e8s une s\u00e9paration d\u2019un an, apr\u00e8s que la sensibilit\u00e9 s\u2019est port\u00e9e vers d\u2019autres domaines, d\u2019autres amis. Mais \u00e0 la v\u00e9rit\u00e9, bien que les sentiments d\u2019amiti\u00e9 paraissent ext\u00e9rieurement oubli\u00e9s, l\u2019amiti\u00e9 est, dans les replis de l\u2019\u00e2me, vivante et solide\u00a0; et d\u00e8s que l\u2019on se rencontre de nouveau, elle revient \u00e0 la vie. Il y a dans ce fait une affinit\u00e9 avec la r\u00e9surrection des morts\u00a0; aussi dit-on, en revoyant l\u2019ami dont on \u00e9tait rest\u00e9 sans nouvelles pendant un an, <em>Me\u2018hay\u00e9 ham\u00e9tim<\/em>, \u00ab\u00a0qui ressuscites les morts\u00a0\u00bb, afin de signaler la force prodigieuse de la vie int\u00e9rieure, qui peut se r\u00e9veiller, m\u00eame apr\u00e8s une longue torpeur. Tout \u00e0 fait semblablement, nous avons foi dans le fait qu\u2019aucune nostalgie v\u00e9ritable ne reste lettre morte. La mort elle-m\u00eame ne peut faire dispara\u00eetre l\u2019amour, et dans la profondeur de l\u2019existence, dans les recoins de l\u2019\u00e2me, tout demeure intact pour toujours, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 la fin des temps\u00a0; tous se rel\u00e8veront alors, ressusciteront, et retrouveront tous leurs \u00eatres chers, leurs amis bien aim\u00e9s (cf. <em>\u2018Olat R\u00e9\u00efya<\/em> I, 380).<\/p>\n<p>Cette b\u00e9n\u00e9diction n\u2019est presque plus dite, de nos jours, car, gr\u00e2ce aux moyens de communication, on entend au cours de l\u2019ann\u00e9e s\u2019il arrive quelque chose de marquant \u00e0 ses amis. Aussi, en se revoyant, on dira simplement <em>Ch\u00e9h\u00e9\u2018h\u00e9yanou<\/em> (<em>Halakhot Qetanot<\/em> I, 220\u00a0; <em>Birk\u00e9 Yossef<\/em> 225, 3).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Si l\u2019on n\u2019a pas vu tel ami cher pendant douze mois, et que l\u2019on n\u2019ait pas non plus entendu de ses nouvelles, au point qu\u2019une certaine crainte pourrait exister qu\u2019il ne f\u00fbt plus vivant, on dira, en le revoyant\u00a0: Baroukh Ata Ado-na\u00ef, Elo-h\u00e9nou, M\u00e9lekh ha\u2018olam, me\u2018hay\u00e9 ham\u00e9tim (\u00ab\u00a0B\u00e9ni sois-Tu, \u00c9ternel, notre Dieu, Roi de l\u2019univers, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[254],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6081","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-chapitre-17-benedictions-de-reconnaissance-et-de-joie"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>12. 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